What do women want from men

It's no secret that men and women are different.

It is no news that they look for different things

in a relationship. They all want different things,

different men for their different personalities.

What do women want from men? There are as many

answers as there are types of women: young, old,

fat, skinny, talkative, quiet, beautiful, not so

beautiful.

One thing that is clear is that everyone looks

for a perfect relationship. Men are remarkable by

their caution and carefulness. Women though are

much more fussy. When it comes to choosing men,

they not only have a greater list of requirements,

they're also keen to make the effort to help the

guy change. But despite their striving for

talking things through, most men still struggle

to understand exactly what women need to be happy

with them.

What do women want? They just want to be happy

like us. They just have a different way to show

it. If you learn their language, listen when you’

d rather speak, hug instead of just walking away,

tell the truth till it hurts, be a man she can

depend on and love her like you love yourself.

You’ll no longer ask what women want, they’ll be

asking you what you want and give it to you.

Here are some true things that we can say safely

women want from men.

Value. Women want to know that their man is

someone other women would want. They want a

certain "gotta have" quality about their man.

This is why, when we go out with a girlfriend,

women give us looks and always seem more

interested. It’s annoying but true: the easiest

way to get a girl, is to have one already!

Structure. A woman wants stability, balance, a

sense of order. She wants someone she can rely on.

You say you’re going to be home at 9:00, you be

home at 9:00. You are late? Call. The hardest

thing for us guys is to differenciate between

support and total control. Creating a foundation

and stability doesn’t mean trying to solve all

the problems to the point you disempower the one

you love. Your love is not a crutch but a bond. A

bond where dependability is synonymous with trust.

Security. Women want to feel safe with a man.

They want to know that everyting’s gonna be all

right. This doesn’t mean you have to be huge and

strong, or have millions in the bank. It just

means you have to talk reassuringly to her, look

after her safety, and assure her when she needs

it that things are going to be OK.

Love . Love them most of all. Let it all out. Let

it all out every day, every minute of every

second of every day. Be love, crawl up inside of

it and approach every problem with the question

what would love do now? If you do this, fear will

never enter your life.

Appreciation. Women DO want to feel appreciated.

They just don’t want to be obsessed over. Guys,

show interest in a woman, and make her feel

beautiful and wanted - but don’t slave over her

and make her feel like you can’t live without her.

That’s just pathetic, and drives women away.

Don’t lie. A woman can forgive a lot of things

but she won’t put up with a snake in the grass

liar. If once she caught you that you lied her

she would never have more trust in you. Lie to a

woman you are dissing her. Tell the truth, you

live to play another day.

Hug her. Hug her in the morning, hug her before

you leave to work, e-mail her a hug and hug her

ten times when you get home. You must make her

feel loved and protected.

Smile. Women don't like boring men. Be someone

who smiles, who doesn't take life too seriously,

who lets loose. That shows a lot more value than

a guy who’s stiff and serious - even if he is

good looking or wealthy.

A woman want a man with a purpose. It's not

necessary to have a lot of money and a great car

but they do want to be headed towards success.

They do want to living up to your potential.

So, as a summary women like to be understood,

happiness, respect and they also want honesty.

But, as the time goes by, the woman wishes change

because she is setting new goals. Why men can’t

figure women out is because they are a

masterpiece in progress.